Five rules for a good Secret Santa list
- Stay within the budget. Every item at or under the agreed limit, so your Santa never has to choose between your list and their wallet.
- Three to five items. One item is an order, twenty are homework. Three to five give a choice and still leave a surprise.
- Mix the prices. One small thing, one right at the budget and one in between.
- Be specific. "Dotted A5 notebook, dark green" beats "stationery". Add a link when the exact model matters.
- One easy option. Something any supermarket or bookshop has, for the Santa who shops the day before.
Secret Santa wishlist ideas by budget
Under 10
- Warm socks in your size and a colour you'd actually wear
- A snack or chocolate you love, named exactly
- A small bag of the tea or coffee you have every day: beans, ground or loose leaf
- A small notebook, or a pen you like writing with
- Lip balm or hand cream, unscented if you prefer
- A pocket card game
Under 25
- A paperback from your to-read list, with title and author
- A card or board game for two to four players
- A beanie, scarf or gloves in your colour
- A plant that copes with a dark desk, pot included
- A paperback cookbook for a cuisine you already cook
- A refill of something you use up: sketch pens, good coffee, your shower gel
Under 50
- A starter kit for a hobby: watercolour, embroidery, bread baking
- A soft blanket, or proper slippers in your size
- A power bank, or a wireless charging stand for your desk
- A board game the whole group can play
- A drop-in class or day pass at a place you name: pottery, climbing, a cooking workshop
- A kitchen tool you would use every week, such as a milk frother
What to put on a Secret Santa list for work
- Desk things. A plant that survives without sunlight, a phone stand, a cable organiser, a notebook.
- Things you use up. Tea, coffee or a snack you name, hand cream. Mention any allergy.
- A hint of a hobby. A paperback, a puzzle or a card game for lunch breaks.
- A café nearby. A gift card for a place near the office is the easy option for a busy Santa.
- Leave out anything too personal, such as perfume or clothes that need fitting, joke gifts unless the team has agreed on them, and anything above the budget.
Questions to answer on your list
- Your favourite colours, and colours you never wear.
- Sizes: socks, gloves, T-shirt.
- Sweet or savoury, and any allergy or food you avoid.
- Tea, coffee or neither.
- A hobby you'd like more time or kit for.
- What you already have too much of: mugs, candles, scarves.
- A team, series or game you're into.
- A shop, café or author you love.
What not to put on it
- Cash. Secret Santa is a gift exchange. A gift card for a named shop is the closest polite option.
- Anything above the budget, even as a joke.
- Only "Surprise me". It sends your Santa straight back to guessing.
- Things that need fitting, such as shoes or jeans, unless you give the exact size and model.
- Things only one faraway shop sells, when the exchange is next week.
Three sample lists to copy
Office, budget 20
- Dotted A5 notebook, dark green or navy
- Peppermint tea, loose leaf
- A desk plant that copes without sunlight
- Wool socks, size M (shoe size EU 39–42), plain colours
- Not mugs or candles, please: I have plenty
Family, budget 50
- The second book of the series I'm reading (link)
- A beginner's watercolour set with a pad
- Warm slippers, size M, grey
- Coffee beans for a filter machine, medium roast
Friends, budget 25
- A card game for four to six players
- A gift card for the cinema I go to
- Dark chocolate, the darker the better, no nuts
- A paperback by any author I've rated five stars this year (list in the link)
How to write your list on wishdo
A player’s list in a Secret Santa room on wishdo: four specific wishes with sizes and colours under “What would you like”, next to “Budget up to 25 USD”.
- Without an account. Write each wish under "What would you like": a "Wish" and, if you like, a "Link to the product". There is no separate field for size or colour, so put them in the wish itself: "Wool socks, size 39–42, dark colours".
- With an account. You choose which of your open lists your Santa will see (the same one goes to every game you play), or start a new one for the game. Already keep an online wishlist? Pick it. Each wish there can carry a price, a photo, a "Description" for sizes and a "Wish priority" from "Idea" to "Dream".
- Add prices in the room's currency if you have an account. Your Santa can then turn on "Within the budget" and hide everything priced above it.
- Your Santa stays secret. They reserve the gift they choose, and their name is never shown to you. A list started for the game, or written in the room, also has "Surprise mode" on from the start, so you don't see what was reserved; if you pick a list you already have with it off, wishdo asks whether to turn it on.
- Missing a detail? Your Santa can ask you a question from the room, and you answer without learning who asked.
- Forgot to write it? Players whose list is still empty get a reminder before the draw; without an account, only if they left an email. You can still add wishes after the draw.
A giftee’s list as their Santa sees it, with “Within the budget” on, next to the pair card with “Ask without giving yourself away”.
Secret Santa: names drawn in a minute
A room, a budget, one link — and behind each name a real wishlist with prices. The reservation does not give the Santa away.
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